I can agree with some of what this person is saying, but, I believe being sexy is much more than just your physical attributes. Yes, when in a committed relationship, whether it’s a marriage or domestic partnership, we tend to let some things fall by the wayside when it comes to personal grooming and even hygiene… I mean who showers, brushes their teeth, shaves, etc. before you roll over and cuddle good morning, every morning? We already have the commitment so there’s nothing to prove when it comes to looks or faithfulness.
A real woman will find the sexy in not only his looks, but, also in how he treats her! All he has to do is turn on the chivalry and I guarantee she will give you that look! Don’t get me wrong, you do have to work at keeping the spark in a relationship, but, it is definitely more than just the physical. I’m also not saying that you don’t have to worry about looking good in the eyes of your significant other, however that is not the primary focus.[page_section pattern=’https://eroticbookreview.com/wp-content/themes/storied/images/patterns/candyhole.png’ textstyle=’dark’ position=’default’]
Here is an exert:
“Fifty-seven percent of married men think their wives are sexy, but only 38 percent of married women think their husbands are sexy.
Sure, time has its way with all of us, but still, why such a difference between the two results? Why do so many more men than women feel their spouse is sexy?
Clearly it’s not because men are kinder, or gentler, or more forgiving of imperfection. (Read the last sentence out loud, starting with “men,” and then try not to laugh at how silly it sounds.)
… My theory? Once married, men don’t put the same effort into staying attractive to their wives that women do.”
This guy makes some good points, but, when I got to the end, I was more like huh? Toward the end of the article, it felt like more of a superficial thing which made it seem as though it was more important to look good than the commitment. Like I said, he made some valid points, however, I want to give people the benefit of the doubt and say that women care more about how she’s cared for. I may say “honey it’s time for a shower or honey don’t you want to shave, I like Tarzan, but, damn!” Lol! Despite these statistics, I believe in looking on the inside because looks do fade with age and there is more to being sexy than what’s on the outside!